Preparing for Your First Photo Session - Couples Portraits and Engagement Photos
- Madison Neumann
- Nov 2, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: May 14
As a wedding and couples photographer, I always prioritize the comfort of my clients in front of the camera, especially when it's their first ever photo session (which is very often the case.) I hear it all the time... "we've never had our portrait taken before, is that okay?" or, "we are just so awkward."
My response is always the same: it is totally okay, and you are not alone - I have a ton of experience with couples feeling the exact same way. Whether you're preparing for an engagement session, celebrating a special occasion with some photos, or just documenting the love you and your partner share, here are my tips for entering your first session feeling fully prepared.
Start with a photographer who's work you really love
Photographers have so many outlets to share their work now - websites, blogs, social media, etc. Taking the time to look through a photographer's portfolio before booking can play a huge role in having a positive first time photo experience. Loving your photographer's work will really help build the excitement leading up to your session, and you'll start to envision the photos you'll be getting back from them. Being truly excited about the photoshoot sets a great tone to begin with.
*Additional tip: if your photographer has a past session or any photos that you particularly love, let them know ahead of time to establish the vibe you're going for!
Let your photographer know its your first session
While it's extremely common to be getting portraits taken for the first time, make sure you let your photographer know! As a photographer, it's good to keep in mind so you can check in throughout the session.
Select a location you feel most comfortable at
As I mentioned above, a huge concern I often hear from couples is feeling awkward in front of the camera. A great photographer will do their part in guiding you through your session to ease some of the "awkwardness," but the location is really the first step in making you feel your most comfortable. If you're feeling shy, you may not want to do your session in a really crowded or public space. Choosing a spot that feels really right is so worth it - you can also always ask your photographer for suggestions on spaces in your area. The date and time you choose can also play a factor; this is a huge benefit of doing shoots during the week, because popular locations often have a lot less foot traffic than they would on the weekends.
Select outfits you feel your best in ahead of time
What you wear to your photoshoot can really set the tone for your portraits. That being said, it can certainly stir up anxious feelings when selecting your coordinating outfits leading up to your session. Don't be afraid to ask your photographer for insight - they may be able to offer suggestions of what might look best in the location you have chosen. As for the clothes themselves, you just want to feel your absolute best. If you enjoy dressing up, then pull out all the stops - if you're more comfortable in something casual, embrace it. You may even want to go for an outfit change halfway through to get the best of both worlds!
*Additional tip: if you're wearing uncomfortable shoes for the photos, make sure to bring an easy pair to slip into as you walk between photo spots.
